Hello lovelies, Happy Monday hope your week is off to a good start! My weekend was quiet but nice how was your weekend?? I thought I would talk about confidence and how much it can help each and every one of us I was always the “quiet one” as they say in school and secondary school I never really interacted with many as I had low self esteem and I wasn’t very confident back then either so it was hard for me to make a lot of friends I felt like I was the odd one out. I had one or two girls I hung around with at break time which was good but I was target for some when it came to bullying even in secondary school. I always self doubted myself when it came to certain subjects and school plays, but luckily I had the support from my family and they put their confidence in me that I could achieve anything once I believed in myself.
As time went on I started to work on myself i.e writing in my own diary my thoughts and expressing feelings at home after school and college as I got older I got wiser when it came to learning more about myself, the most important person is you right? We all need work on ourselves otherwise we can lose who we are if we don’t. I keep to myself a lot and I like it that way, I believe we all have to find our feet in this world it may take some time for a lot of people rather than others. It took me so long to figure out what I wanted to do with my life and it took a lot of college courses in different fields to find the one that I really was interested in.
So after completing college diploma in Beauty Therapy,Makeup & fashion I knew that’s what I loved doing but still something was missing I was never confident enough to go out on my own even though I tried, I knew I wanted to share my love for fashion & beauty but didn’t know how until I started writing about it and this was where my blog came into what I now love doing, for me it is about being creative, anyone can be successful if they really put there mind to it what ever they would like to do, being aware of your own strength’s is a huge part of confidence levels identify what your strengths are & constantly remind yourself of them.
I always acknowledge my passed successes which can be in anything that you have achieved, the more you acknowledge what you have achieved the more confident you become in accomplishing new and bigger goals, there sometimes is a voice inside my head that throws all the negative thoughts out which then I question myself but just stop take a moment breathe and fight that feeling of negativity as its only a feeling. I firmly believe the last year or more I have gained a lot of confidence and because of that it has boosted my self esteem and me as person I can finally show off my personality and shine through my blog there is no better feeling. What are your thoughts??
*All Clothing & accessories are from Primark
Lots of love